Life doesn’t have to stop once you get married and have kids. In fact, your family can be your motivation to reach your goals and achieve success.

Part of the joys of having a family is that they can be your biggest cheerleaders, so don’t let your lifestyle hold you back from accomplishing your dreams.

Flip through to read 5 ways you can accomplish your personal goals when you have kids and a family:

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#1 - Explain Your Goals to Your Family

#1 - Explain Your Goals to Your Family

In order for your family to accept and make way for your ambitions, you need to explain your goals to them. If you keep it all inside, frustration will build, so just be honest about what you want to achieve and why.

Once they have heard you out, they will more than likely fully support you in your endeavors and understand why some changes will need to occur. Communication is key, especially within a family.

#2 - Improve Your Education

#2 - Improve Your Education

You may think that your days as a student are long gone, as it’s a lifestyle only suitable for single people. However, more and more married people and parents are going back to school and building on their education to further their careers.

Higher education can lead to promotions and higher salaries, so it’s worth looking into. If you can’t afford to give up your job to go back to school, consider researching online college degree programs.

Online degree programs often allow you to work at your own pace, so you can study in the evenings and on weekends, keeping your day job and continuing to provide for your family while you earn your degree on the side.

#3 - Make a Schedule

#3 - Make a Schedule

Whatever your goal is, you’re going to probably be working on a tight schedule. Therefore, it’s essential that you make a physical copy of your schedule to share with everyone in the family.

Write out a weekly schedule and make copies so that your family knows where you’ll be and what you’ll be doing. Try to stick to it as much as possible in order to make the most out of your time. Also make sure you make plenty of time to commit to your family duties on your schedule. If you want your family’s total support, they need to know that they’re still appreciated and valued.

#4 - Set Goals that are Realistic

#4 - Set Goals that are Realistic

If you have a family, you are going to have to set goals that are realistic. If your goals are too far-reaching or there’s only a small chance you’ll achieve them, you probably won’t.

Create goals that will make you happier and more fulfilled once achieved, but not ones that are impossible to achieve given your lifestyle and family commitments. You will only set yourself up for disappointment if you over-reach.

If you do have a particularly big or lofty goal you really want to achieve, try tackling it in chunks rather than going for it all at once. This way you can still achieve your goal, but in a realistic timeframe.

#5 - Prepare to Make Some Sacrifices

#5 - Prepare to Make Some Sacrifices

If you go full steam ahead with any goal, you will probably need to make some sacrifices along the way. Both you and your family need to understand this and that in order to reach your goal you will have to cut back on some things.

Cutbacks can come in the form of finances or in time, but whatever it is, just make sure your family doesn’t suffer in the process and that any cutbacks are only temporary.

You can achieve personal goals no matter how busy you are, or how many commitments you already have. All is needed is patience, commitment and the willingness to put in some extra hours to get the job done. Good luck!



Want some supplementary reading? Check out The Big Book on Achieving Large Goals: Your personal workbook and companion devoted to helping you focus on planning and achieving your goals.




  1. May 17, 2014 at 1:41 pm — Reply

    I love the advice to sure your goals with your family. Not only it helps them understand and support you, but also creates a sense of accountability and actually helps you reach those goals faster 🙂

    • May 17, 2014 at 6:15 pm — Reply

      Exactly! My husband tried to keep a career goal a secret once, and for months I was wondering what in the world was going on with him. He finally told me and I’m like, ‘Dude! I can help!’ lol. Communication is key.
      Thanks for stopping by! 😉

  2. May 17, 2014 at 10:48 am — Reply

    Great tips! I love the first about explaining your goals. Letting people in you life know what you are working to accomplish can be a crucial part for support! Stopping by from SITS!

    • May 17, 2014 at 6:16 pm — Reply

      Yup! I think that’s the most important one on the list. Sharing is caring. lol.
      Thanks for stopping by Lori! 🙂

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