Brown Baby Hair Diaries 2 – African American Baby Hair Care
It’s been a year since I’ve shared any details of my baby girl’s natural hair journey. I’m happy to report that my daughter’s hair is growing and thriving phenomenally well.
When I allow her hair to flow free, showcasing it in all its glory, I find myself bombarded with questions regarding how I care for her tresses. Her hair is gorgeous. What can I say? The thickness is borderline excessive, and her “4-a” curl is to die for. For all of you brown baby beautiful hair hopefuls out there, I have to admit that my little girl’s hair is 70% just simple good fortune.
Like most African Americans, my daughter is a mash-up of many wonderful ethnicities. Her father’s Irish routes, and my pinch of Indian heritage (although any attributes of that have apparently skipped over yours truly) have produced a mane that is thick, curly, and multiculturaly fabulous.
With all of that being said, there are, what I believe to be, universal steps that, if utilized regularly, will insure your brown baby’s hair is placed in the best position to grow and flourish. My daughter’s hair, just like any other African American’s, is prone to excessive drying and breaking. (I learned that the hard way after having lost a bit of hair from a particularly stubborn dry patch on the back of her head.) So a regular routine is necessary to ensure health and growth.
Here are eight steps that I take regularly to insure that my little brown baby’s hair remains healthy and retains its length.
1.) Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize! And I Never Forget those Ends!
The ends of your hair are always the most sensitive. Why? Because that’s the oldest hair you’ve got. I use a water-based moisturizer on my little girl’s hair, (that Carol’s Daughter leave in is wonderful); and I always pay special attention to her ends. After moisturizing, I swipe the ends with a natural oil or shea butter to seal in that moisture.
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2.) I Protect the Hair At All Costs, Especially While She Sleeps
That cotton princess pillowcase may be super cute, but it could be doing a serious number on your brown baby’s hair. Cotton is a super absorbent material, which is great for a summer t-shirt, but awful for a pillowcase. It snatches the hair of that vital moisture that your brown baby needs.
I’ve had my little girl sleep on a satin pillowcase as long as I can remember. I’d use a satin hair cap if I knew she’d keep it on. (At two years of age that would be impossible) A satin pillowcase works perfectly at reducing friction and creates a perfect moisture encouraging barrier for her hair strands to glide.
3.) I’m Pro Protective Styles
Any hair style that keeps the ends tucked away and that can be left in for a week or so with little maintenance is always ideal. That includes braids, twists (which I’m partial to), or any other secure updo. The less I have to fool with my daughter’s hair the better. Daily styling and tons of combing and pulling tend to put a lot of extra stress on her hair which isn’t ideal for growth.
4.) I Create Secure Styles… but Not Too Tight
Secure styles are great, but if they’re tight to the point of causing your brown baby bumps around her edges or outright headaches, you’re kind of defeating the whole purpose. Overly tight styles can lead to dreaded hair loss and breakage.
5. I Use “Snag Free” Everything
I love hair accessories. Now is the time my daughter can get away with wearing cute clips and colorful rubber bands. Whatever hair accessories I buy, I try and make sure it boasts being tangle free on the packaging. I also trash any hair combs with missing teeth or barrettes with jagged edges. Things like that can very easily rip hair out. That would be bad news.
6.) Gentle Detangling Is Key
Yanking, tugging, and pulling out the tangles in your brown baby’s hair is bad news all around. I always spray a detangler or use a moisturizer in my daughter’s hair before beginning to fight the battle (Check out the one from the KoKo du lait line); and I only use a wide tooth comb. I start from the ends and move down gently, and in no time her hair is detangled with very little shedding.
7.) I’m Not Afraid to Trim, Trim, Trim
If you’re afraid to trim off your daughter’s split ends for fear of “losing length” please get over it. Split or dead ends need to be annihilated quickly. Split ends will only split more and can travel all the way up the shaft. Have you found a miracle split end mender? Don’t believe the hype! Once an end is split, it’s split. The only way to fix split ends is to never get them at all or to cut it off.
8.) I’m A Firm Believer In Conditioning
Yes, even a 2-year-old needs some deep conditioning from time to time. I wouldn’t suggest buying anything fancy with tons of proteins and chemicals. I simply use an all natural olive oil conditioning treatment once a month or so and it does wonders for my daughter’s hair. (Especially on her pesky dry spot.)
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